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I think that no matter what the order, all kids should be treated and cared for the same! But, aparently child support and my son's father seem to think differently. My bd has two older sons that he pays child support for, the oldest gets $60 a week and the second one gets $45 a week. I just had my son less than 2 months ago so we're still getting things settled with child support and all that. In the mean time I asked him to buy a pack of diapers that will last him until I get paid since I just went back to work. Do you know what he had the nerve to tell me? 'I guess I can buy you a package, but nothing too expensive because I have to pay the rent and they take alot of child support from me.' You mean to tell me you can't spend less than 10 freakin dollars on your youngest son, but you pay $60 and $45 a week for your other sons? Also, I talked to the child support worker and she also said that with each child they typically get less. How is that fair? I mean I'm not trying to get child support so I can just be lazy and do whatever, but I still think my son should get taken care of by his father! I wouldn't of even bothered with it if he actually would give me money without child support actually taking it out of his checks.