Well, DS got diagnosed by the DR that he may have asthma based on his chest x-ray. I was told this yesterday and I called BD right away to let him know the results. His response...
"Asthma!? No way he can have asthma, he can hold his breath under water for like 15 sec! I want this DR info, what is her number"
"I have given you the DR info many many times. Look in your email or look it up. I'm tired of being the responsible for you."
Well I went to the DR office to pick up the RX of two inhalers for DS. when I got their they said they had just gotten off the phone with BD. He was very rude and demanded for another opinion. So the DR has given us a refferal to go see a specialist. Not a big deal, that's fine.
I leave DR office and BD calles me
"we need to talk."
ok, whats up?
"We need to get a second opinion for DS, and I'm going to get on private ins so that we have better options of DR's then what the government ins gives us. and since I'm paying for day care and will having to pay for ins you need to start giving me mone."
You know what BD, why don't you start making actual smart financial decisions. You could be using my sister as day care for DS but you refuse, we have been on government insurance for the past 5 years now because you refuse to pay CS, so it's been ok all these years but not now? This convo is over, you will be hearing from my lawyer.
I later emailed him regarding he inhalers for DS (i got two of each, one for my house one for his) and he states that he will not be giving it to DS.
DS has been having and on and off cough for years, he had phnomna when he was 4 months old and have always had problems with his lungs, and fluid trapped behind his ears and head. I mean seriously, I would give DS the inhalers till we go to the specialist. I would rather be safe than sorry.
I hate him... I can't wait till court in Aug and I get final decision making authority. I am so tired of this BS. BD doesnt even keep DS doctor info, doesn't even keep my sisters info for when she watches him. He is so irresponsible! He gives the day care he put DS in all wrong info for ME. Doesn't put the Dr info either. I don't think he is responsible enough to make such important decisions.