Baby's Daddy wants me to remove my restraining order???
Hello everyone so I hit a couple problems. I am being told that my baby's dad still loves me but will not try and get back into a relationship with me due to all the problems we had. All that he wants is to be apart of his sons life. In order for this to happen he wants me to remove the restraining order so we can try and work things out for our son. My son is only 8 months so is to young to know what is going on. I live at home with my parents and my son. It is the only way I can support myself and my child. My family wants me to have nothing to do with the father and thinks he will be nothing but a bad influence on Zackary(my son). I have a court date set already for Full sole permanent custody and a child support determination.
Now here's the thing he is married and had another boy that just turned 3. He says hes divorced because he wants nothing to do with her but the divorce is not final. He will also not go to court to finish anything. He as many warrants out and a really bad record. He says that he was never in a physical relationship with anyone else while we were together but idk if I believe that.
I just don't know what to do and was hoping someone can give me some advice. Am I better off without him in our life??? Or should I give him a chance to really be a father if that's what he wants??? I can't talk to my family about it and I'm getting different information so I'm lost and confused.
Any help would be great. Thank you.