Trying to get one guy to let go..and i have another being flirty..damn i could write a novel lol.
I was trying to work things out with my ex( separated with him in Nov) ..before agreeing to get back in a relationship with him.
However 5 weeks ago , i back peddled right back to the friendship stage (something happend that made me realize he was never going to be able to compromise)
We had our regular counselling (going for better communication on many aspects one of them being so we can co parent our DD effectively).
And i told him thursday at the counsellors , that i can not offer anything else other than a friendship and that he needed to move on. I explained why , i explained that i just was not inlove with him ..we both deserved to be happy ( i said a lot more ...but that would make the post long lol). He asked yesterday if he could have DD for the night ..since he finally had a saturday off , i said that he could.
He then asked me if i would like to go out with him tonight...WHAT? really? he never made any attempts to try to take me out when we were trying to work things out ..and now that he once again has lost me ..NOW he makes the effort? LMAO ..yea i dont think so , im done playing mind games. I told him " i said what i had to say yesterday..dont make this awkward".
Now ...on to the flirty guy.
I have known him for two yrs, he lives in my building...i had put on my FB page that i needed to start doing the stairs ( a set of stairs that go up the mountain..there are 504 steps)..and would anyone want to do them with me? He replied that he would...about a week or so after that he messaged me asking if i wanted to go do the stairs.
We have done the stairs twice (both times him contacting me) ...and both time's ive gotten a lot of hand on my back, asking what is going on with me and the ex , teasing , walking very closely to me ...wanting to hang out and have a few drinks one night...
I swear i can write a book! That would make a very interesting read .... :P