(( Great song for you ladies' mad at the baby daddy--> LISTEN! I recommend))
it has been too damn long since I have been back to my favorite group,and site "Cafe Mom"..I started working again about 4 months ago as a telemarketer surveying seniors' about their medicare supplements(Yeah what a fucking job) Not so much, but hey! A paycheck EVERY Friday, and doing something more than sitting on my ass while the world goes around is better than nothing!
I hope everyone is doing wonderful..I have not been so great, but on the other hand I cannot complain.My ex-husband and I were getting along for about a month for our son he hasn't seen in 4 years(yes,4 years) since he went AWOL from the Army for 2...SO I tried that,and it didn't work? Yeah he sure moved on--He's married now and has another child ((a newborn baby girl to be exact))..Nothing wrong with that,right? Unless you're totally desperate!
WELL I got tired of dealing with his shit,and his over demanding ass telling me I have to meet him halfway inorder to come and get his son...(Um, since when is it my responsibility to give your wallet a cool down because you've added on MORE responsibility than you COULD afford??)My dds' dad and I were "trying" to get to know eachother,and that did not work--So far I think you're catching the drift that the past 3 months aside from my great career have NOT been so pleasing..But fulfilling in a way that I am not afraid to go to court anymore.
Yeah for some reason for someone as broke as I am on a fixed income,and foodstamps-A family law attorney just would kick my budgets' ass so I am going aunatural and going to represent myself.
I told DDs' dad I am FINALLY done with the bullshit,and don't feel we need to deal with eachother any further personally--Yeah he as well wants me to cut him a favor,and not go to court...Pfft!
SOOOO I am "hoping" for shit loads' of papers' being served to me soon--I hope.I think it'll be best to have schedules of meeting back and forth,taking the kids etc, will be alot less stressful if all is handled in a court.
WELL that was just a quick catch up! HOW is everyone else doing?