Well one has lived a hard life. They all have a bit of dad issues I think because my dad was young when he was with their mom and he is an alcoholic and he disnt recover until I was six. There was drinking and cheating and they knew what was up and were old enough to see their mom hurting. Understandably, their mom was pissed and bitter at him and my dad felt bad so he sort of stepped back. (my mom has nothing to do with the end of their marriage) their mom grew up in a Fam wih money and remarried well so they've never wanted for much. One is a surgeon, one is a lawyer. Then there's this sister.
She ran away at 14 with the rodeo. Met and married young and had a daughter. The marriage didnt last. My sister became an rn. She is also an alcoholic and abuses drugs for many years. Shes in her 50's now. Ten or so years back, she was drumk on a flight and assaulted a flight attendant and served time in the fed. As a condition of her parole the judge to her is she has another alcohol related offense, he was putting her in the mental hospital for rehab. Well she got a DUI and that happened. Well the lawyer sister works for my local da office am she was able to have the judge award custody of he to her mother and the plan was to move her to our state in a rehab here.
For the last year she has had liver disease. When my other sister picked her up she was acting ok. But she told her that she hates her meds and she isn't going to take them anymore. They make her tummy hurt and give her diarrheA (liver meds) well it went all downhill from there. She walked onto the flight. Seemingly fine. By that evening, she was ou of it. Not recognizing anyone. Acting erratic. They called 911 and sent her to the hospital. Well, her liver is done. She's so agitated she won't keep an iv in, or a catheter And she can't get up. They have her on enough haldol and anther psychotropic to knock out a horse but she is still up and down. Knocked out or trying to get up. She's not eating, she doesn't recognize anyone and they are just waiting for her to go. Her daughter flew in from out of state. She's grown and married w little girls. She is the one that notifies me of this situation. She said "my mom is such a good person, but she could t beat the demons" :(
My dad doesn't know yet because my mom is out of town and he is senile an she doesn't know wha he would do of he's alone. I think I might have to tell my mom to call him. Idk what to do :(