short story....been with boyfriend well over a year. my sons is 4.5 - they are close(he is not his biological dad)
his son is 12 - only comes around when he has nothing else to do - or to get out of going to church - the bf doesnt force his son to spend time with him anymore. his son is jealous of me and my son has verbalized it to his biological mom, but doesnt make much effort to come to his dads (spend the night or just do anything period) -
moving on - BF's parents planning a family trip in august( after I graduate nursing school) - the boyfriends son has stated he doesnt care if I go but doesnt want my son to go. it takes attention off of him.....and that my son spends more time with his dad -- granted he does but my son is always with us, and no one forces him to come over or spend time here with his dad - it is his choice....
i feel like a lot of things are dictated by him(12 year old) and it is starting to bother me....
Advice on how to handle this situation.