So I was talking to this man that was 38 years old off of Christianmingle.com
he seemed nice and was funny so I wanted to meet him in person. We went on two dates and had a great time. I did not want to kiss him until got to know him more but he wanted a kiss and leaned in for one(he was 6'4 and I'm 5'5) so I gave him a peck on the lips. He walked away without saying bye so I thought that was strange so an hour later I text him saying hope the kiss wasn't to bad and he sent a text back saying he didn't think we had chemistry and he said if God's willing I'll find someone. I was shocked. I was thinking how can u tell from a peck on the lips and after two dates if u have cemetery? I was like I need to have sex with someone to know if I do or don't. I don't know but I really like this guy but he wanted to move way to fast and meeting him off of Christianmingle.com I thought he would of wanted to wait and take things at a mild pace at least not fast. I guess it doesn't matter where u meeting em from they can just be looking for one thing.
I don't want to move fast but to get to know a guy and see what he is about before having sex or even giving a great passionat kiss to. Are there any guys left out there willing to move at a mild pace and not just looking for sex? Its frusturating when all I get are guys just looking for sex and nothing real and lasting. I need something lasting and will stick around.