My youngest son's dad took me to court saying he hasn't gotten to see his boy since December and he is going for half custody too.
So in court we have total opposite stories: he said December but I know he hasn't seen Roy since Feb so he lied right through his teeth. To think he put up his right arm and swore to tell the truth what a joke! Anyways so I had dates on which showed days he didn't pick up roy and times he brought him back late. I had to tell the judge everything and he still lied.
The judge said to start back up the every other weekend with his dad and added Wed to the schedule. I work an hour away and go to school an hour away so its hard for me to come back and forth esp when he isn't paying his child support and is working the lowest amount he can so he doesnt' have to pay child support. Background on how he can do that is he got with a person that has 5 kids and she gets child support for those kids so they living off that money. It sickens me that he can do that but he won't pay for his own child. I had to take my son out of daycare because he got to pay less in child support so now my son isn't learning as he should but he is smart and has retained the stuff he did learn.
I don't see how a dead beat guy that lives off someone else can be even thought of given half custody. I do everything for my son and he does nothing but gets his on his dads then hes done until his next time/days come.
The judge told him last time he had to get a better job but he hasn't he went down even more in hours. Its sad how guys don't want better for there kid(s).
I am so mad right now and now we have to go to another place so they can determine if he gets half custody or not. I don't agree and don't want that for my son at all. Hes just doing it cause hes a puppet for the girl he with and she pulls all the strings. She tried coming in the court room to sit on in the hearing and the judge said if anyone objects and I shook my head yes so she had to leave the dumb broad will not be taking my place ever with my son. I don't like girls that think they can take over just cause they with the guy and the real mom isn't. She can go to H*ll all I care thinking she going to get my baby away from me.
My child is scared to go with him and the judge told me the only way to prove it was to get my son to see a psychiatrist and that person say why he is scared of him. I am concerned but not sure how to get one.
Have u went threw this before or anything like this and did ur ex get half custody or how can u prevent it if at all?