But the one problem is my mom doesn't want me to have a life, it seems like she wants me to stay home all the time doing absolutely nothing. Im 19 and yea me and my dd live with my mom (really wish I didn't) and its like I respect her house and her rules , but when I go out and I'm out late I even call to tell her , look I'm not gonna be home just giving you the heads up , this is what she says to me "I'm gonna call CPS on you cause you can't be having your daughter sleep just anywhere in the street, she needs to be in her own crib at home. Next time you do this I'm gonna make sure they take her from you and give her to her father."
Now there are many things wrong with that if you ask me , first off my bd is a deadbeat he cares only of himself and I have no contact with him. The next time we will see each other is in court !! Second he's an unfit parent and he's never home so my daughter wouldn't even be places with him , he sleeps on a couch at his dads house -_- third what exactly will you say once you call CPS that I take my daughter out with me and that sometimes I sleep over a friends house. Like I'm not harming my child, neglecting her or abusing in any type of way.
My daughter is with me at all times , ALL TIMES and for her to say something like that just makes me so angry . Like what exactly do you want me to do at home I'm not in school yet till August, I don't work cause I'm still waiting for the daycare to accept my daughter , and then to top it all off my mom goes out more then I do. She goes to Atlantic city to the casinos , to new York just to go shopping , to different parties every weekend while I'm stuck at home without an invite because "it's a party for someone I don't know" yea right.
And then I can't argue with her cause once again I'm under her roof. Not paying rent or anything , which I appreaciate cause I have my own room as well , so I try not to argue with her cause if I do she threatens to kick me out and she has before. So I try to keep my mouth shut , but it's like I wanna stand up for myself say something and tell her " look I'm a young adult now and I take care of my daughter 24/7 a day without anyone's help , you cannot keep treating me like a child I am a mother and I also want to have a life , I dont abandon my child she is with me at all times and if she's with me then you shouldn't be concerned when we're out and threaten to call CPS"
To me this whole situation is just ridiculous but what can I do ive tried to look for jobs no luck, I've tried to look for free housing no luck, so it's like I'm stuck and I don't go out but two times a week if I'm even that lucky. I just don't know what to do anymore any advice ???
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