See what CafeMoms are saying about saving time this holiday season..
so dd1's father is in prison...has been since december 26, 2009. dd1 will be THREE july 11...well i got a letter in the mail saying he has filed to get FULL custody and physical placement of dd BUT while he is in prison he wants dd to live with his mother (her lazy ass doesnt work..she babysits her dd's friends infant and her dd's son but she married for money). his mom still sees dd but since my ex is dating this guy (yeah i know it is NASTY) who is a CONVICTED sex offender (he molested his nephew) i wont allow dd to visit him. WELL here is the thing...i get very little pa i am between apartments right now so i can pay off some shit but i will be back on my own in a month or so (i work my ass off) so now i have to pay for mediation just to go there and tell them he is in prison and THEN hire a GAL and THEN hire my own lawyer. and I have to pay for all of this w/o the state helping since i dont get fs. but his mommy and step daddy are paying for everything for him. (hes an abusive cheating, drug addict...hes still on drugs even in prison he is truly sickening). well now i dont want dd to go by her grandma anymore because when she and her 1st dh were getting divorced she would bad mouth her dh to the kids so they would say bad things about him to the GAL...i dont want to give her the chance to do that to me. sooo wwyd?!?! what can i do??