okay so i'm 19, and ive been really close best friends with a friend of mine since my freshman year of highschool. shes been through EVERYTHING with me, including two heartbreaks and the birth of my child. we are still very close and she loves me and my family to death. i love hers as well. well i met her cousin (who is 26 now) three years ago and we have always been flirtatious with each other. he always joked about how we would get together when i became of age. haha, hes very sweet and has an awesome job! (hes a firefighter) he was there for me through a lot, weather it be helping me with my ex boyfriend or being there when my son was born he was there. (he also lives and works an hour away) well recently for my bestfrineds graduation i threw her a party and he admitted to me after i left that he really wanted to kiss me and now i see that i really have liked him for a while, he has a girlfriend thats he is miserable with and will be breaking things off with. and he came over a week ago and he cheated on her with me. i haven't told my bestfriend yet but she is already assuming considering i drove down to his fire house the other night to hang out with him. i want to tell her soon ( i think i am going to on thursday). He loves children and loves my son and my son loves him! ive never been with an acutal good guy i tend to go for losers and he knows this so i'm nervous on where this might lead. i just want an outsiders opinion on this situation and if its bad to persue this.