So Im living with my mother and father right now. Its soo hard to dicipline my child living here. My mother was a very strict parent when i was growing up but shes become a push over now. My son will act perfect when its just him and me but add my mothe in the mix and it starts up tantrums, and not listening to me. I know hes using us against each other. But when i try to tell my mother this she ignores me. Im getting so tired of telling him no on something and then instead of his back talk i got her mouth. I dont want to seem ungreatful but im sick of it. If i dont give him something i dont need to be questioned buy her about it. Also at the end of the day when my father gets home she tattles on me. If she thinks i was over harsh on something she will tattle. Or if i dont do something and she wanted me to she will look at him and expect him to tell me to do it. He dont he understands its my child but how do i get her to back off.