put your ego aside and put away the super woman cape and answer this truthfully...NON OF YOU HAVE ANY ROOM TO JUDGE ME IM HUMAN

[babyandmommy824]

IS THEIR STILL A PART OF YOU THAT IS STILL IN LOVE WITH YOUR BD OR BDS?? DO YOU THINK ITS NORMAL??

Even though I was abused throughout my pregnancy, given a sexually transmitted disease because he always cheated and my BD treated me so bad he is the father of my very First and only child and for some reason I still care about him. He's tried to have my baby taken because I tried to kill myself a while back, tried to have me jumped by his sisters when I was pregnant, told me he didn't want his child, threw me against a wall while 5 months, tried throwing me downstairs and tried to drown me one day while swimming. I needed to let alot of this off my chest now u know y im paranoid. My baby is all I have ill die if I loose him. Dont apologize plz not looking for sympathy just wanted to breathe again.

[pce68]

I was never in love with my BD. It was nothing more than a one night stand more or less. I knew him only a few days before we had sex, and then I moved so if I hadn't called to tell him I was pregnant, I probably would have never seen him again,so I can honestly say I am not in love with him. In fact the longer I know him the more I want nothing to do with him ever.

But you're not crazy to feel that way. I think a lot of women feel that way, especially abused women. I can't give you any advice but I hope everything works out for you and your baby.

[Cowgirl_Momma19]

I was never in love with my sons father. I had just gotten out of a relationship and was broken hearted when I met a good looking guy at a rodeo. We dated 3 months but only because I found out I was pregnant 6 weeks into it. It wasn't anything more than lust and loneliness.

[cdjd23]

Hell no. Thankfully I was able to completely cut him out of my life so I don't have to deal with him at all. Any feelings I had for him vanished when he said he hoped me and my ds died during labor. I got that and it was a fuck you very much, peace out and leave us alone.

[Mommy2TwinGirls]

I'm not saying this to you to be rude or judgmental but I think you need some counseling. Not because youre crazy for feeling the way you do but to help you so you dont fall victim to that type of abuse ever again & so you will never go back to him either. Good luck!

[MicheleJM]

I am sure I will always care for my ex. One just doesnt throw away 12 or so years of marriage. But I dont want him back. He also wasnt abusive. I agree with the other woman who suggested counseling. I think everyone needs to ask why they picked the men they did so they know what to avoid next time around.

[Charlotte1608]

Why would anyone judge you? But to answer your question, No. I never loved my kids dad.

[tyfry7496]

Hell no I'm not. No feelings at all.

[happymommy1105]

That's not love.

Please seek counseling.

I say that as a survivor of domestic.violence.


Did I love my sons father? Yeah to some degree.

[edithch]

Umm idk what to say. But i guess ill answer your question. Yes i love my bebes father. Hes the love of my life and always will be. But yet i hate him for what hes done to me and thats why i cant be with him even tho he wants to.

[faerie75]

No I'm over him.

I think you are suffering from low self esteem and need some therapy. I'm not judging you either.