I need single mother advice. Some of you may have been through this or have similar experience. My daughter will be five and has only seen her father twice in her lifetime. He's not around because at the beginning HE chose not to be but all of a sudden there's a change of heart I guess . He had never supported my daughter financially & yes I know money isn't everything but damn she's expensive lol! Not complaining because I've been doing it alone since day 1. I put in all the work all the overtime all the effort because I made this decision when I got pregnant! Long story short, he wants to "be a part now" & I told him NO !!!! Am I wrong for that?? The reason I told him no is because he's never been consistently around my daughter is not a toy I refuse for her feelings to be played with, what if he decides one day ehh I'm not digging this being a dad thing then what? He won't get a court order for whatever the reason may be Idk what to do he called me every name in the book because I'm acting this way!! I don't keep contact with him I don't look for him I've had the same cell number for 6 years and can't change it now because I use it as my business phone I need help what do I do .