I just found out tonight that my husband was also cheating on me. I wanted this divorce to be as peaceful as a divorce could possibly be but now I'm just not sure how that can be. He has such a chemical imbalance that i never realized was as severe as it is until we've been apart. I'm so worried about my daughter. She is in the middle of all of this and I wish more than anything he had nothing to do with her. He is 1200 miles away but I still just feel like the entire time we were married was a lie. It's like everything comes together when you find out something like this. I also wonder what else he's done in other cirumstances. I know no women ever goes into a marriage thinking that who they are marrying would do this to them,(well i guess some women do) but i didn't. I just don't know what the next move i should make is. I know this is alot to be writing about something so personal but right now I feel like this is the only place I can say these things. My family is behind me 100% but it really does help to know that other people are praying. I'm just scared. I don't know what to do next because i feel like the man i married i don't know, and i never knew.