Ok ladies, it has been a week today that my ex has seen my daughter. His choice. He drinks constantly, doesn't have a license and does coke. I told him i would drop my daugther off at his grandma's house so he could see her there. And if he wanted to take her for a walk in my neighborhood he coud anytime as long as he took a drug and alcohol test first. He has made excuses everytime I have asked if he wanted to see my daughter. And everytime he blames someone else for him not wanting to take time out of his social life to see her. He has a girlfriend that he doesn't want to meet my daughter (which I am sooo happy he said this so I don't have to). He says he wants to see my daughter anytime I will let him but never follows through. I want either full custody or supervised visits until he can get his life together. I want our kids to know him (i am 18 weeks pregnant) but not how he is now. I can't afford a lawyer right now but I don't want too much time to go by without him seeing my daughter. i can't trust him to not drink or be on coke when he has my baby. Any advice on what papers I should file or who I could call? I have physical and legal custody of my daugther but our court paper says we share joint custody. We have no arranged visitation, we were just going to try to work it out ourselves.