Even though I'm technically married to my daughter's father, I still *FEEL* like a single mom. My husband lives out of state and isn't involved with his daughter at all. She's 8 weeks old and he still hasn't even met her. I don't know how to handle it. I do EVERYTHING for her. He hasn't done a single thing. No wait, I take that back...he bought her a play mat. That's all! No clothes, no diapers, no formula...nothing. He never even went to a single one of my prenatal exams. I've been alone from the start. And now he's acting like he has some kind of say in how I raise MY baby. And yeah, as far as I'm concerned, she's mine. He isn't the one waking up with her every 3 hours to change her diaper and feed her. He isn't the one buying all the stuff she needs. He isn't the one providing insurance for her (which is legally HIS responsibility since he's military) and taking her to her doctor's visits. He isn't providing a roof over her head! It's ME. All ME! So why in the world does he think that he can just waltz back into our lives as if nothing happened??
Gahhh...sorry. I just needed to vent.
*To be more clear...after next month, my husband being in the military won't matter anymore. He's getting kicked out with no benefits. That's why I said that he's thinking he can waltz back into our lives. He's expecting me to forgive his bullshit and take care of him.*