do i need one too? i just started a part time waitressing job. i have no money for a lawyer. he does coke and is a alcoholic. doesn't have a driver's license either. he hasn't seen my daughter in over a week by his choice. he is only doing this to hurt me. i don't feel like my daughter is safe with him. i want supervised visits and drug and alcohol testing. we were trying to work out visitation ourselves. any advice?