My dd's dad and I were never married. She saw him from the time she was 1 until last year, when she was 12, but he was not a great role model as a father or as a decent, kind man. I have not had a relationship with any other men since my dd's dad ( and that doesn't really count as a relationship,lol). So I worry that all of this will teach her not to trust men. I want her to grow up and meet a wonderful man and get married, even though I never did. I want her to find love. Is she destined to repeat my mistakes? I have heard that girls are more likely to marry someone that is like their dad. That's the last thing I want for her. How do I prevent that from happening? She goes to church and I try to surround her with people, men and women with the values I believe in, but is it enough?