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i feel like a looser..

Posted by on Aug. 8, 2012 at 7:51 PM
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i feel like a looser..

i had to ask the school for help to get my kids school stuff ,i,m going to the church for help.. i just cant find a job ..i have tried every place..fast food,wallmart,every thing.. i,m such a looser..
i,m gratefull,happy i,m getting help..but i feel like a pos parent..
ppl forget ppl on pa or that get help have feeling to..
no bashing i,m trying my hardest..i have sold every thing i can.i have no money ..:(


                                 

Posted by on Aug. 8, 2012 at 7:51 PM
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rvb146
by Member on Aug. 8, 2012 at 7:52 PM
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Don't feel bad about it. That's why there are programs to help out with children's school supplies.
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Charlotte1608
by Lottie on Aug. 8, 2012 at 8:05 PM
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You are not a loser! You are trying your hardest and that's all anyone can ever do. You'll get back on your feet again. You're a great parent.
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MommyAJ2921
by Bronze Member on Aug. 8, 2012 at 9:55 PM

I understand COMPLETELY how you feel. I'd go to hell and BACK for mine...and to be in a position where I can't do AND have to rely on help from others BURNS like ACID in my gut. The ex constantly says one thing and does something else. Know that you are doing the ABSOLUTE BEST you can and your kids will LOVE you for it. One day, one step at a time. hugs

KRIZZ25
by Platinum Member on Aug. 8, 2012 at 10:02 PM
and ppl bashing ppl on pa makes me feel like less of a person.
tyfry7496
by Janet on Aug. 8, 2012 at 11:54 PM
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Kriss you are NOT a loser!!!! You are doing your best to raise your children. Everyone has rough times and need help. Use the help you can get and when you are stable, help others. Pay it forward.
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LifeCafe42
by Nora on Aug. 8, 2012 at 11:56 PM
Everything isn't always roses but you are trying your hardest to take care of your kids. You are not a looser!
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LovinLiv
by on Aug. 9, 2012 at 1:18 AM
You try so hard for your kids! And a mom who tries so hard cannot possibly be a loser! It takes a lot of strength to ask for help! And I agree with Janet, soon enough you'll be on the other side of things and will be able to pay it forward.
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animebuddy
by Platinum Member on Aug. 9, 2012 at 5:27 AM
You are not a loser! Its hard out there and sometimes you ned help, that's why those places and programs are there. One day you will be in a better place. ((Hugs))
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queensweet
by on Aug. 9, 2012 at 5:48 AM
You have my empathy and I understand what u r going through. My sista, just beccause u fall on hard times does not make you a loser and you have nothing to be ashamed of. Money does not make a good parent. Just know this is only temporary. I give to you a hug and a shoulder to lean on.
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kjsaes
by Member on Aug. 9, 2012 at 6:44 AM
Its not the people that are on pa that are trying to make things work and find jobs that people bash. It's the ones who sit around and don't do anything about it and still have the nerve to complain about it. The ones who live off of it. I was on food stamps at one point not ashamed to admit it. I needed help to get on my feet once I was on my feet I quit sending them new info they wanted and got out of it no shame in that.
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