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Down n out

Posted by on Aug. 8, 2012 at 9:18 PM
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Im just having a bad week. Just wen I thought things were goin okay, I got a reminding reality check. My boyfriend outa the blue descides to remind me once more that this baby shouldnt b here n how much he doesnt want him. Im seven months and I just feel awful. One day hes rubbing my stomach n we are discussing names, and the next, im stupid for keeping the baby after he said he doesnt want it. He always apologizes later but hearing it every month hurts me. His mom says hes just stressed. But im so hurt I just cant let it go. We live together n I have three other children and he has a son. I dnt think I want him there wen I deliver. I feel like this is my child and not his
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Mickey617
by on Aug. 8, 2012 at 9:22 PM
he says hell be here to take care of the baby. I grew up n plenty of homes with people who took care of me but didnt want me around. I dnt want my son to go through that. Everyone days to give him time, and that after I have the baby thinhd will change. But I wont lie, wat he said gas pushed me soo far away. N soo hurt I dnt.want to forgive him
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MommyAJ2921
by Bronze Member on Aug. 8, 2012 at 9:25 PM

hugs

ZakkarysMom
by Natasha on Aug. 8, 2012 at 9:29 PM
Fuck him. I dont care if youre stressed or not. When I found out I was pregnant with my last son (hes 10 months now) my dad said I should have an abortion. NEVER will forgive him for that.
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MeeshMom
by Platinum Member on Aug. 8, 2012 at 9:48 PM
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Ugh I can't believe someone can be such a dick like that. Honestly I would distance myself. You don't deserve the stress. And his mom is a prize defending him for that instead of smacking him upside the head like she should.

Mickey617
by on Aug. 9, 2012 at 7:23 AM
I kno imcapable of doin it alone. The father of my other children was very abusive so I left. N for my safety and the safety of my kids, I raise them alone. I dnt have ne family. It sucks wen hes the only one there to watch the kids while I work. Hes good with the kids, but he just didnt want nemore of his own. He pressured me to have an abortion my last pregnancy and I did, n I cant forgive myself. I just couldnt go through that again. I want my baby no matter wat, I just wish he wanted him to. You never kno wat blessings each child will bring. They r blessings n themselves. I just want to show everyone that I dnt need him
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vamom08
by on Aug. 9, 2012 at 8:03 AM
Its time for you to take the trash out and he is the trash move on its plenty of single mothers in the world a child is a blessing its not meant to be aborted I had my daughter at 19 years old no car,no job,I made it threw the storm without a damn dime from my daughters father she is my gift from god. My baby will be 4 in November im putting her in Preschool Im about to Move out of my moms apartment trust me it will not be hard somebody need to abort his ass for being a coward what mans tell a women to abort thier child something that yall created together he needs to go to hell I will be the one to light the torch to his ass.He should have thought about stress when he he was having sex with you dont stress now its to late his mom need to be punched in the face and make her son be a man.
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Mommyto2LilMen
by Tina on Aug. 9, 2012 at 8:18 AM
I couldn't be with someone like that.
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Caramel824
by Bronze Member on Aug. 9, 2012 at 8:26 AM
I would tell him CONDOMNS are FREE in every clinic,and we could of used birth control.now you got to suck out GODS blessing destroying a life and ripping your inside out cuz he can't strap up NO!!!!MAN up or git out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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LifeCafe42
by Nora on Aug. 9, 2012 at 9:28 AM
Hugs mama

Quoting Mommyto2LilMen:

I couldn't be with someone like that.
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steviechick
by Gold Member on Aug. 9, 2012 at 10:24 AM

I couldn't be somone that disrespected me like that either.  I know times are hard for you, but there is no way that you should be with this 'man'.  He's obviously inmature and has already produced another child.  He will continue to be worthless.  Try and find a way to live without him.  He will only continue to bring you down.  Hugs to you, Mama!

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