So i never posted in here But i needed to vent and see if any one else deals with this with there EX/babydaddy. But please please no bashing.
My Ex is Such a complete And utter Douche bag That has no common sense what so ever besides the fact that he is a sociopath !!!!
So my Ex is talking to DD this afternoon and she puts it on speaker phone sits down at the table and he is talking to her a few min in to the conversation he takes a call on his house phone will talking to her. By now she is already getting board with talking to her dad. So she starts to walk in the other room Next thing i know Im happy that she did Cuz he starts to talk to his friend about Two girls that they know and How they were supposed to see these girls this weekend and the " FUN" They had with them before Wile Getting drunk and doing drugs and the three sum and the sex acts they did. It's like really WTF I shouldn't be surprised by this at all but i am. My ex is some one that no topic is off limits with any one. Not even his child. I am thank full that she walked out of the room when she did But she walked back in right before he got off the phone with him and he asked her will laughing so did you here daddy's conversation like bragging that he wanted her to here it. I am so Furious right now!!!!
And before any one trys to say well why didn't you just hang the phone up. I didn't because we are in a custody battle right now ( where he has been battling me for months to get 50/50 in custody) I have full and sole legal custody with him only having visitation. And the only reason i didn't hang up the phone on this conversation is i was trying to record what was being said so that i could have proof to take to my lawyer.
Im sorry i am just so pissed right now!!! I have been dealing with crazy non since like this for far to long now and I just want it over with. And the courts just keep dragging this custody case out. Even though His side has done nothing but prove that he is incompetent and in no way a good person to have even visitation of his child. ( Way more in back story that i will go in to some other time) .
I just wish there were some one who understood. I have friends that i can vent to and family that i can vent to that understand to a point just because they know my ex and the kind of person he is. But No one who can fully understand where i am coming from and really knows what i am feeling when i deal with him.
I am so sorry you are dealing with that. What a complete idiot.
Quoting SinceresMomma:
He's an idiot. Glad your daughter wasn't in the room. Some things aren't for a child to hear. How old is he again???
My DD is 6. But what is bad is he has been doing stuff like this and worse since she was a baby.
Quoting caytismom:I am still dealing with a douche bag, divorced 3 years and it never stops. He taught my daughter a entire song about drugs and how awesome they are. She was 10 at the time. IDIOT! They never change.
You are very right they never change my ex DD's dad has been like this since the day she was born. And thats in a way why i dont know why i am suprised By this at all.
Quoting 1battymom84:So i never posted in here But i needed to vent and see if any one else deals with this with there EX/babydaddy. But please please no bashing.
My Ex is Such a complete And utter Douche bag That has no common sense what so ever besides the fact that he is a sociopath !!!!
So my Ex is talking to DD this afternoon and she puts it on speaker phone sits down at the table and he is talking to her a few min in to the conversation he takes a call on his house phone will talking to her. By now she is already getting board with talking to her dad. So she starts to walk in the other room Next thing i know Im happy that she did Cuz he starts to talk to his friend about Two girls that they know and How they were supposed to see these girls this weekend and the " FUN" They had with them before Wile Getting drunk and doing drugs and the three sum and the sex acts they did. It's like really WTF I shouldn't be surprised by this at all but i am. My ex is some one that no topic is off limits with any one. Not even his child. I am thank full that she walked out of the room when she did But she walked back in right before he got off the phone with him and he asked her will laughing so did you here daddy's conversation like bragging that he wanted her to here it. I am so Furious right now!!!!
And before any one trys to say well why didn't you just hang the phone up. I didn't because we are in a custody battle right now ( where he has been battling me for months to get 50/50 in custody) I have full and sole legal custody with him only having visitation. And the only reason i didn't hang up the phone on this conversation is i was trying to record what was being said so that i could have proof to take to my lawyer.
Im sorry i am just so pissed right now!!! I have been dealing with crazy non since like this for far to long now and I just want it over with. And the courts just keep dragging this custody case out. Even though His side has done nothing but prove that he is incompetent and in no way a good person to have even visitation of his child. ( Way more in back story that i will go in to some other time) .
I just wish there were some one who understood. I have friends that i can vent to and family that i can vent to that understand to a point just because they know my ex and the kind of person he is. But No one who can fully understand where i am coming from and really knows what i am feeling when i deal with him.
Scared to get out of my comfort zone
- 1battymom84
on Aug. 17, 2012 at 6:30 PM