My ex got a lawyer and is trying to hold me in contempt of court for refusing visitation of our daughter. I have asked him a couple times a week to come take her for a walk or see her at his grandmas (he is a alcoholic and does coke so those are his only options as far as i am concerned). Today is three weeks since he has saw our daughter by his choice. I asked him to see her for an hour and he said he has to go to his company picnic. An hour and he can't do it but he wants to go to court. And says he will get full custody. Now I have to waste the little bit of money I have saved for my daughter on a lawyer to handle his crap. So tired of trying to make him be a father. I give up now. I wish he would just walk away and leave my little family alone. We are so much happier now and dealing with him puts me in a bad mood. Raising children isn't the easiest thing but it's not that hard either, You have to be sober and want to be there for them.