The misstressis callin MY son!

[mylilgooberpea]

How would yall handle it? The fathers phone called mine but a female voce was the only thing I heard. But he says whoever he chooses to talk on the phone is his buisness. "i was on the phone too its private". She was calling MY son "baby" like hes HERS! She stole my husband he left us for a MARRIED woman who sleeps around while her husband was deployed! She was my friend, loved my son as soon as I gave birth to him. Humph can I have any say who my son talkes to on the phone? Or can they hide behind my ex's parental rights? Oh by the way he hid the fact she was here during his visitation. He was sick and they didnt tell me he had a tash till I got a text saying we are in the er our son threw up has had a fever of 102. No mention hes had a rash to go along with it. Didnt take him to the dr, just pharmasists. Only took him in when he threw up in thier new car choking on mucus!
Wwyd?
Sorrt im on mobil wish they had spell check.

[sarahmiamaria]

How old is your son? Sorry mama. No advice here, but good luck!

[Andrewsmom70]

Sorry but you cannot steal a spouse that isn't willing to go. Sounds like you're better off without him though.

[mommaJewels2011]

That sounds awful! I'd take the phone away if I heard her voice. She has no rights! Grr, very upsetting!
But it does sound like you might want to go to counseling. I don't believe anyone can ” steal” a husband away. He made those choices. And yes she was married, but so was he. It just sounds like from this post you hold a lot more anger towards your ex friend than the man you said vows with. Good luck and I hope you find lots of happiness! :-)

[mylilgooberpea]

Quoting sarahmiamaria:

How old is your son? Sorry mama. No advice here, but good luck!

Hes 3. Last time she saw him he was less than 9 months. He didnt remember her from adam.

[happymommy1105]

When he has your son, what he does is hisbhusiness. As long as the child is properly cared for in the eyes of the
Law there is nothing you can do.

As far as the not taking him to the doctor, it sucks but they may not have seen a medical need for him to go til his fever was higher and they took him to the er. when to take a kid to the doctor is pretty subjective. and they did seek medical care for him.

[mylilgooberpea]

Quoting mommaJewels2011:

That sounds awful! I'd take the phone away if I heard her voice. She has no rights! Grr, very upsetting! But it does sound like you might want to go to counseling. I don't believe anyone can ” steal” a husband away. He made those choices. And yes she was married, but so was he. It just sounds like from this post you hold a lot more anger towards your ex friend than the man you said vows with. Good luck and I hope you find lots of happiness! :-)

Your right he wanted to leave. He missed the single no kids attached sailor life and all that comes with it, porn bars,shiny cars, do what I want when I want. Theres more to the story with her/them. She wants happieness others have does things to get them. Kisses girls bfs in front of them to make them mad. I had no idea she was like this until after she had her sights on my husband. And his on her. Oh well. shes always avted like she gave birth to my son. Thats how she works. All hers once she gains control. I vowed I would never be the other woman. I see what damage it can do. How it can rip a family appart. Some day I will be at peace. But SHE is NOT his mother she has no rights to him. She has no liberty to call. They hide behind his right to un monitered phone conversations. But I do get to choose who my 3 year old gets to talk to on the phone. My son screams bloody murder when he sees the blanket they gave him saying I hate it get it off me!. I tried to get him to tell me why did something happen all I can get is a yrs and he cries till o take it away. Oops sorry turned into a rant. Lol

[momof2toeheads]

Oooooh yeah that would make me soooooo mad. She is doing that to make you mad not because she cares about the child. I would answer that phone and put it on speaker. If she gets on...hang up!

[Tricia1979]

At three years old, you have every right to monitor every word that is spoken to your son. Put the phone on speaker and hang up if the woman gets on the phone. You have no obligation, legally or any other way, to let that woman speak to your son during his father's scheduled times. Stand up to her, you have rights and she doesn't. Good luck!

[MicahBoo07]

 the phone calls should be just the dad & child not anyone else. She sounds like my bd he got married to a lady 10 or 15 yrs older than him and she thinks my son is hers. He is 3 now but last fall she tried having my child call her mama and I put a stop to that that is my child u did not birth him. My bd & I were fine until she came in trying to control everything he did/does so now he wonders why I hate him & don't get along cause she trying to take my son and thats not going to happen. Just stand ur ground and give the evil eye to her if u see her so she knows mama is on the look out. Those type of woman make me sick. Good luck with it!

[luvstoscrap79]

if you have the right to monitor then politely tell your ex that if she calls you will be hanging up and that only he is allowed to talk to ds.......good luck