Okay so I am 23 years old and have a 14 month old I use to be a big time party girl before i had my daughter I even went out when i was pregnant but all that has changed. Ever sense i had my little one everything has changed. Well the thing is i havent been out in over a year and every time i want to go out (which is not often) my Mom gives me a guilt trip about it so I end up not doing anything and staying home. to me its like okay i have a kid yes but i do need to get out once in a while and its not like i ask her to watch my daughter anyways. She even gives me a guilt trip about going to the movies and leaving my daughter with her babysitter I'm like mom thats the only mommy time i get to myself. I need some advice. Please Help.