Long story trying to stay short. My ex husband and I were together for 13yrs, married 7 of them. Out of nowhere he tells me he wants a divorce. I begged, pleaded, and cried for him to not do it. He tells me he had an affair and loves someone else. I was sick! I moved out of the home, because I couldn't afford it(he left for a bit), and I just couldnt stand to be there w/ the memories. A week after I was out the other woman packed up evertything, and started living in my house! I was and am still so hurt by this. It hurts every the times I have to go to my old home to pick up my daughters, and seeing her sitting on the front porch. Now I find out my old best friend the one I went to and cried to about the affir is now her best friend! On top of that, my ex has rekindled friendships he lost over the years(with whom I still keep in contact with), and now these couples are hanging out with my ex and his fiance. They are getting married in November. This sucks! Seems like my life has moved on but shes the one in it. My house, my ex husband, my friends...I'm trying to not let it get to me but it hurts. I constantly have anxiety about this. They all know she knew he was married, but now it seems like they all are condoning it, and being her friends. They were mine! I can't help but envision them all sitting there talking about me.Going camping, and they were just at their bridal shower. She also thinks that I text my ex way to much, its always about our girls, but she doesn't say anything about him calling and texting me. So now I worry that shes going to sit here with my friends, and make them think that I'm trying to ruin their marriage, and make me look crazy..when I'm not. I'm hurt.