I don't bother wearing heels anymore. I rarely do anything with my hair except put it back in a bun. I didn't really think about it until one of my co-workers said "We're moms we don't have to get dressed up." (her son is 12 years. Mine is 14 months.)
I don't typically dress up because I don't have to. Not because I don't want to, but because I don't have to. Doesn't mean I'm not pulled together.
I was never the dressy type. I was sad and angry too. I thought what was the point of dressing up. Until my aunt told me you do it for YOU not for anyone else dress up everyday like if you were going to a party. I've started doing that and it does make me feel better and I think it helps my self-steem a lot. I don't do heals every day I mostly do jeans a nice shirt and make up.
Quoting vamom08:
I give myself a shower and I wrap my hair (Black women terms)and I put on clean underwear and bras and sweats and a tank I still look cute that's how dressed up I get if its something important I will put on some vaseline on my lips I will throw on a blazer and a Cami in some skinny jeans and flats .I'm not wearing heels when I have to act like a quarterback to run behind a 3 1/2 year old I have a blazer in every color expect black.lol
girl you just made my day! so funny about the quarterback and the heels! lol



- Sidrosmomma
on Aug. 29, 2012 at 10:41 AM