I just saw my lawyer today the ex and his attorney had a book of questions for me (am I on medications if and what, doctors I see and for what my financial information etc. I have taken care of our 5 year old son financially and emotionally for his whole life and now he is trying to to prove me unfit. Our son received an academic award and I was the only on that worked with him and his acadiemics. Now it's going to cost me around $10,000 to fight this, I found out today. Any advice?