ok ladies i would appreciate any feedback on this one...my daughter will be a year old this week. she has my ex's last name. he has not seen her in 5 weeks but is taking me to court for more vistiation. don't know why he is wasting his time and money. he is an alcoholic, does drugs and doesn't have a license. the most he will get out of it is his standard parenting time which is more than he has said he wanted. i am 22 weeks pregnant with his child now. (was taking birth control and it didn't work, super excited about having another baby even though it will be extra hard being a single mom of two girls). i do not want to give the one on the way my ex's last name. he has shown absolutely no interest in the baby and told me he didn't want kids ever and even said he doesn't think i am really pregnant. i am trying to change my daughters last name to mine but it seems like for now i need his consent before i can. what should i do ladies? i don't want my kids to have different last names but i have every intention to keep trying to change my daughters name to mine. would it be easier to change just one last name eventually and let the one on the way have mine now??