I could use some sound advice about my custody case. Turning to you ladies!
How do I make this simple so not to give yall a headache? Several years ago I basically shot myself in the foot by agreeing to a 50/50 visitation arrangement. For obvious reasons, it's not working out. He is not communicating with me and putting our daughter in the middle of our basic parenting decisions. She's an awesome little girl but this arrangement has really made her take on the role of mediator and almost young adult. It's really sad. It's really difficult. Because she is happy with the arrangement, it looks like I may not be granted sole decision making. I mean, there are a few important factors to incorporate into this case (like a history of dv) but I'm so worried that decision I made really didn't do MUCH good because she's used to this back and forth. She's happy to see us both and that damn law guardian enrages me. I want to just slap her. Where do they get these people from?? Sigh ... I'm ready to take this case very lightly and not sweat the outcome but deep down inside I'm still very hurt ... please tell me one of you ladies has dealt with a similar situation and can give me some advice as to how to face this ...