My son's father is not involved with us however I do let his parents see my son a few times a year. They are not overbearing but so enjoy seeing my son and feel bad about the situation and how things worked out. They have sent us money from time to time but nothing on a regular basis.
I tried to let my inlaws see my son but it was too dramaful to continue. I definitely don't expect anything from them finacially and they don't seem to miss him much.
My youngest son's dad is not in our lives at all and his family choses not to be so I have never been faced with the decision. If they wanted to I would let them and I wouldn't ask anything from them.
My kid's dad didn't even tell his parents he has a kid sooooo they don't know she exists. Kinda shitty, but I don't want a huge drama mess if I were to tell them behind his back.
Sarah & Ky :)
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