I've given up!!!!!!

[nelliesophia]

On dating and love and relationships! Urgh the DRAMA! lol. It's too much, plus I'm still in love with my BD, so I'm trying to let that go and just move on with my life, but let me tell you, I'm never doing that falling in love shit again! lol, I surrender, white flag in the air!

No, from now on friends, I wear my single Mama badge with pride! I embrace you old cat lady status!lol, At least the cats nuzzle back!  Plus, you can just kick them off the bed and spread as wide as you can when you wanna sleep ( I hog all the blankets). I will go see movies on my own, I will take this sexy ass of mine out on dates and proudly stare at the waitress when I respond " for one please." I will drink the wine and not feel envious of the happy couple sitting by the next table. I WILL BUY SHOES, and lingerie and model for myself, because I am the only one who will fully appreciate me!

I have given up on prince charming and have decided to reascue MY DAMN SELF!!!

Who's with me =)? lol

[madisonlove]

WOW!!! I LOVE IT!!! i wish i felt like you.. I am tired of assholes.. loosers... users..cheaters... abusers.. I am alone 98% of the time.. i live with my baby father..i'm 7 months pregnant.. but I want to soon be able to leave him and do meeeeeeee.... love meeeeee... I admire you for how you are.... it does get lonely i'm sure but... you are so right.. I know i'm preatty, sexy and the best thing he has ever had..trust me.. i am...i'm not conceited just being honest... his last girl is cock eyed and bisexual..she has a humungus ass that's what he likes..his wife..he is seperated is worse..she looks like she came out the jungle..uglyyyyyyy...ugly and mean...has a biggggggggg ass also..me I don't but I got everything else..and i'm nice... how did you get to how you are now?? honestly....i like that.... gives me hope that i'm not the only one out there that got fucked by men ...thank you..you made me smile.......

[Charlotte1608]

I am with ya. I also have unresolved feelings for kids dad. I'm concentrating on my kids and my happiness. I sure as heck don't need another man right now.

[tezell78]

Amen. I am focusing on the person I neglected for all those years, getting to know me again.
I'm pretty sure I will stay single forever, because now that I am living by myself, just ds and I, the thought of living with someone gives me hives...........

[MsReena]

As soon as you stop looking that's when the rush comes piling in!... Be prepared, the prince charmings are on the wayyyyy! :-)

[bxmom2580]

Same here

Quoting tezell78:

Amen. I am focusing on the person I neglected for all those years, getting to know me again.

I'm pretty sure I will stay single forever, because now that I am living by myself, just ds and I, the thought of living with someone gives me hives...........

[queensweet]

I decided to focus on raising my son and pursuing another career. I realized a long time ago the pickings are slim. I am happy because life is so much quieter and peaceful. I feel like I can relax and I am content.

[nelliesophia]

LOL, Girl I prayed and prayed and prayed. It's just not for me, well I hoped it was but I don't think it was made for me! And you're right, loving yourself is important. I love the self esteem that you have! I need that!!! Keep it up, and remember, you deserve the best!

[LifeCafe42]

I'm with you! You need to be happy with yourself before you will find me. Right. Take time to focus on you and your kiddos!!! I know I'm the happiest I've been in a long time single

[brieri]

 

[triggersmom27]

 I AM WITH YOU! but i'll have dogs not cats!