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I want help but am afraid to get it because

Posted by on Sep. 21, 2012 at 8:06 PM
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I'm afraid my daughters dad will take her away if he finds out i'm going to counseling......

The man litterally knows my every move, doesn't matter what I do, he knows my every move. I'm currently stressed with a headache due to him fb stalking me via friend requesting my cousins on my dads side, which I have asked him repeatedly not to do.

On top of that he's told me he won't take our daughter unless I piss him off.
I'm tired of dealing with him and torn between getting help and giving her up to him so I can have him out of my life.

I really don't want to give up or lose my daughter and really want to get help, I just don't want him being able to take her from me because she's all I have.
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babyandmommy824
by on Sep. 21, 2012 at 8:12 PM
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I know how you feel but it can't hurt you if anything it will help you because it's showing them you have or had a problem and are trying to fix it. For me I went after being abused by my bd and it helped alot now Im starting my own Support network for ppl like me and single moms in or out of my area
babyandmommy824
by on Sep. 21, 2012 at 8:14 PM
Good luck you'll be ok
LexRi0709
by on Sep. 21, 2012 at 8:14 PM
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1 he can try to use it in court, but it generally won't work. 2 get rid of your fb page if he is stalking you. Blocking does nothing. He can make a new page that you don't know about. If the stalking continues after that file a police report for stalking and file for an ro.
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queensweet
by on Sep. 21, 2012 at 8:18 PM
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Counseling is very confidential. so there is no way he can find out.
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mommy_2_be_2010
by Bronze Member on Sep. 21, 2012 at 8:23 PM
I know he can thats why i'm afraid he'll take her because i want help, as far as fb goes I deactivated my page and stated that I no longer felt safe.

He has even gone as far as calling the guy that i'm talking to gay. I know that isn't true, if he was gay why would he be willing to let us move in with him, Shouldn't he have a bf if he's gay instead of wanting to make me his gf????

Quoting LexRi0709:

1 he can try to use it in court, but it generally won't work. 2 get rid of your fb page if he is stalking you. Blocking does nothing. He can make a new page that you don't know about. If the stalking continues after that file a police report for stalking and file for an ro.


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LexRi0709
by on Sep. 21, 2012 at 8:24 PM
What makes you sure he can use it against you?

Quoting mommy_2_be_2010:

I know he can thats why i'm afraid he'll take her because i want help




Quoting LexRi0709:

1 he can try to use it in court, but it generally won't work. 2 get rid of your fb page if he is stalking you. Blocking does nothing. He can make a new page that you don't know about. If the stalking continues after that file a police report for stalking and file for an ro.

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Andrewsmom70
by Silver Member on Sep. 21, 2012 at 8:29 PM
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What sort of help are you needing?

Have you had someone check your house, car, etc for bugs/tracking devices?
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Arwynn
by on Sep. 21, 2012 at 8:30 PM
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Get help.
That will show how serious you are about keeping your daughter and taking good care of her.

Therapists know waya to deal with stress and evil exes.
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mommy_2_be_2010
by Bronze Member on Sep. 21, 2012 at 8:31 PM
I don't drive no I haven't because we don't live together


Quoting Andrewsmom70:

What sort of help are you needing?



Have you had someone check your house, car, etc for bugs/tracking devices?

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mommy_2_be_2010
by Bronze Member on Sep. 21, 2012 at 8:39 PM
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He can subpeona the records though for use against me in court


Quoting queensweet:

Counseling is very confidential. so there is no way he can find out.

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