I will be the first to admit that I am a jealous person when it comes to my love. I don't like him talking to women that I feel are more attractive then me or hanging out with his friends more then with me. But I don't seem to have that problem with my guy. He is ALWAYS talking to women and telling them how attractive he thinks they are and stuff. It used to really bother me but we talked about it and he assured me that I am the only women he is really interested in and that he tells women they are attractive to make them feel better about themselves. I still have a tiny problem with this, but I think I am handling it okay. I am not the problem.
He has a six year old little girl, she really isn't his but he is all she has ever known as a father figure. Her mother just came back so now she has mommy and daddy around all the time. When me and my boyfriend first started talking, she was all about being in the middle of every hug, breaking up stolen kisses, holding our hands so she was in the middle of us. We couldn't show each other any form of affection without her trying to get in the middle of it. I realized that it is probably hard for her to see daddy with someone else besides her, so I just had to deal with it and show her that I wasn't taking her daddy from her, we could spend time together and with her.
Well, things seemed to settle down with her and she actually told me that she wants her daddy to marry me. I am a good mommy and she wants me to be with her daddy. But now that my boyfriend and I are getting closer to each other, she is back to she has to snuggle too when we are snuggled together, she has to be in between us when we go anywhere together as the three of us. She breaks up kisses and hugs. And when we do outings together, she prefers to sit on my lap and have all of my attention, but when we are at home, that is a totally different story.
So is it just me and I am seeing things out of proportion, or is this jealousy thing coming back out? And if it is her being jealous, why again now and when will it stop, and will I have to keep dealing with this? I don't understand. She practically lived with me all summer long and that was the reason it all ended the first time. So why now? There is nothing any different from what it has been the past several months, nothing that people can really see. I can tell there is a difference in how strongly we feel for each other, but no one else can seem to SEE that. Why after accepting it is she seeming to have issues? Please help!