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Neighborhood picking on my son because he has a single mom

Posted by on Oct. 3, 2012 at 6:50 AM
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Hi All. 


There is a girl in our neighborhood, about 1 year younger than my son, who picks on him on the bus.  Apparently she is always attacking me "your mom works at night, that is so weird".  "your mom is old".  "at least my parents dont fight so much they had to divorce".... I know this little girl must know a lot because her mom is a  recess aide  at their school and the school was deep in my business because I had to take a 1 yr restraining order against my ex.  

On the other hand, I know this little girl is going through a lot because she was the youngest until recently when her mom had twins so she is probably looking for attention using the negative route. 

It is starting to bother my son,  Should I contact the school, the girls' parents, or just let it ride? 


Thanks



by on Oct. 3, 2012 at 6:50 AM
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erinmomofone
by on Oct. 3, 2012 at 6:55 AM
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I think the school would be the best since it is happening on the bus. She bullying him and schools are suppose to not take it light and enforce no bullying. That's my suggestion.
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owl0210
by Bronze Member on Oct. 3, 2012 at 9:24 AM
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 It's sad because this little girl is obviously learning it from somewhere. I would speak to the school.

CutieCrab
by on Oct. 3, 2012 at 9:43 AM
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Speak to the school
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Mommyto2LilMen
by Tina on Oct. 3, 2012 at 10:09 AM
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Oh my goodness how sad. 

deltathree
by Gold Member on Oct. 3, 2012 at 11:40 AM
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Been there hun - so sorry - hugs....

easinpc
by Gold Member on Oct. 3, 2012 at 12:19 PM
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I would start with the parents and go from there if they don't resolve the issue.  Good luck!

strongerwtime
by on Oct. 3, 2012 at 12:20 PM

nope make contact...I had to do the same TODAY! Something possibly similar....dont let it ride.

KRIZZ25
by Platinum Member on Oct. 3, 2012 at 2:00 PM
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u need to talk to the mom ,child.. let the girl know its not nice ,hurtful to talk to ppl that way ..
LifeCafe42
by Nora on Oct. 3, 2012 at 3:05 PM
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I would go to the school since it is happening on the bus. Even if her mom knows what's going on in your life doesn't mean her daughter needs to know
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acastle2
by on Oct. 3, 2012 at 3:09 PM
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 Let the school know what is going on because obviously her mom likes to run her mouth and everything which shows she has NO couth whatsoever and that is not good for the school to have someone like that working around the children. What else has she told the little girl that the little girl is using to bully other kids? If the little girl is being the abusive emotionally right now imagine what she will turn into when she is older. It doesn't matter that she just got twin siblings doesn't mean she has to treat others like that.

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