I'm having my first child and me and the father are on rocky terms. For most of my pregnancy we havent spoken due to the fact he would call just to argueand threaten me over a item he left at my home. I had to go to block his number to prevent any further harassment. But he had decided to get in contact with me recently cuz I'm due at the end of this month. I'm tryin to be civilized about the situation even asked to speak with the person he's with just to get to know each other she declined just because I'm his ex. I pretty much said what needed to be said about what I would like to happen with our child . my only consern is that my child is going to be loved and not be braged into a adult situation.I thought we were on the same page, I'm trying to not let the past get in the way.He's over steping his boundarys by calling me at 3 am and just today he called me just cuz he was bored and loney which I feel is inappropriate . I told him so and he got very irate and texting things to upset me. I already don't trust him .I worry that my son will be subject to things that dont involve him just so my ex can hurt me . I want my son to have a father but I just don't want to deal with the head ache. I wish for his father to have no involvement . I don't know what is the right thing to do.
on Oct. 6, 2012 at 2:32 AM