I just gave birth to a beautiful baby girl named gabriella. She is so precious and i wouldnt trade the world for her. Im currently a single young mom and was in a really bad abusive relationship.. I was 17 and thought i was in love and it really just made me become so depressed then i found out i was pregnant and he said he was going to change and all this stuff but he just became so violent.. thankfully i finally moved out of the state and moved to florida.. but now i found out hes looking for me and theres already a no contact rule.. but hes came knocking on my window at my parents house. Im scared and he doesnt want nothing to do with his daughter just me.. and he has a huge drinking problem. Plus he has bad trama from the army. I want to move on and be the best mother i can be for my little girl. but im scared if i just ignore him and dont tell him ill still be there hes gonna do something stupid ): What should i do..
Don't be afraid of putting him behind bars. You don't want to constantly look over your shoulder when your daughter is with you and you don't know what your ex will do at any given point. Lock his butt up again if he continues to threaten you after he's been incarcerated. The life and health of you and of your baby is more important than being scared.
If he comes by again call the police. If you do not enforce the order he will think that you don't really care and will continue. I can however understand your fear that it will make him angry, but to protect you and your child you may have to take that chance. Hugs and stay safe!!
I agree. Your child is more important and you both need to be safe. If he is violating the restraining order then you do need to call the police and have him arrested.
Quoting steviechick:Don't be afraid of putting him behind bars. You don't want to constantly look over your shoulder when your daughter is with you and you don't know what your ex will do at any given point. Lock his butt up again if he continues to threaten you after he's been incarcerated. The life and health of you and of your baby is more important than being scared.
All the PP are right, best thing to do is get him put back and jail until he learns he needs to stay away from you and your child.
I agree that you need to let the police know what is going on even if it just goes on the record. Being the best mother you can be is protecting your little girl AND yourself. Do NOT just ignore it. I know it is hard but it is important to face problems head on. I would also suggest taking a self defense class. Whatever you can do to make yourself feel and be safer, the better. Hugs to you mama.
Quoting devynsmommy09:Do you have a restraining/protective order? I would go get one immediately. If he comes around again, have his butt locked up. He has no right to terrorize you and you have every right to protect yourself and your little girl.
prayers for all involved..
- alexisngabby
on Oct. 8, 2012 at 3:08 PM