Long story short...called DFAS Friday to check on missed child support payments and they tell me that my ex is getting chaptered out of the ARMY(he was active reserve and stopped going to drill 7 months ago). First I was pissed that he can't keep a damn job. Now I feel sad that he won't do right by Devyn.
His phone has been turned off. I think he's living with his GF whom I found escort ads for online. And I'm pretty sure that his car has probably been reposessed by now too.
I thought about calling his mom to schedule an intervention but his granny died Friday so I have to wait. Honestly, I wonder if it is even worth it. He wont change until he wants to change, right? But what if he wants to change and he just needs help? Idk. I grew up, I don't understand why he wont.
What do you think? Should I bother with an intervention or just let him drown?