I'm still trying to figure out what is best for my son in regards to his father having him on weekends. Of course my family who hates the guy thinks he shouldn't have my son every weekend. That part I'm thinking is true. Now they're telling me to go to court that I should let them decide. We were trying to do this with the least amount of fighting and disruption to our son's life. Well now on the news we hear about a stepmother and father of a 4 year old girl who got abused to death. My parents start pointing that out and how we don't know much about his new girlfriend. He's staying with her most of the time as far as I know. Technically I don't think he's paying rent or anything while he's staying with her. Am I being naive about this situation? I've never worried that he would hurt our son and I don't think he'd let her do anything, he got mad at my parents when they spanked his hand once. It's just making me second guess everything and feel like it's going to have to get ugly. Any advice you guys have or if you've been in a similar situation would be great. It's just making me feel worse and worse.