He has not paid any of their medical bills at all or child support that he was supposed to. State said they have no record and he hasn't missed any payments since they started....but have no record of anything previous to first payment. In order to get what is owed to me I have to go to court. I was thinking about changing what is paid up to the minimum also. I don't want it to cause hatred toward me but it is owed to us. I had to borrow money because he wasn't paying when he should have been.