My 4yo son: I wana go see your boyfriend
Me: mommy doesn't have one
Son: yes, you do
Me: no, mommy doesn't. I promise
Son, yes ---- is
Me: hahahah you think ---- is mommys boyfriend?
Son: yes he is
Me: no, we're not together anymore
Son: but, you love him
-end of convo- I didn't know what to say after that. This guy and I have two kids twogether after my son was two and a half (he's now 4 and the kids we have together are 1 1/2yo and 3mo). We broke up in march and haven't seen much of each other since. I do love him so so so very much, id consider myself lucky if he ever came back and be a part of the family he helped create -but its really him that'd be lucky if I let him come back after the bs-. The rare times we do see each other and the many times we fight over the phone, he always says he can't be mean cause he still cares and still loves me, I don't believe him for the most part cause he continues to run away from both me and the kids.
I didn't know exactly where to post this, I just wanted to share my sad and a bit happy conversation with my 4yo