See what CafeMoms are saying about saving time this holiday season..
When I found out I was preg my SD didn't want any part of it, he told me he wasn't stable enough, that I should get an abortion, then made up a story that he had gotten another girl pregnant as well too, he was going to marry her, and if she ever found out about me and my baby she would leave him and I'd ruin his life. His family who I was also very close with went along with his story for a few months too, until his sister finally told me it was a lie (which i knew all along). So I have been a single mother since day one. SD never contacted me throughout my pregnancy. I contacted him a wee before I was scheduled to be induced and asked if he planned on meeting the baby and he said yes. I contacted him when he was born didnt hear back from him until the following day, he never came an saw him, so when he was 10 days old I took him to his house o meet him. Needless to say over the next few months he has had very limited contact with seeing the child. A total of 7 times in 16 months, all visits under 30 mins. when my baby was 6 weeks old he got mad that he could not have him alone, and i didnt hear from him for 6 months, until I go served with court papers. Courtwise, we have gone through classes, mediation, hearing dates, at he last hearing he was granted supervised visits a a visitation center because he's an alcoholic which pissed him off so he claimed the child was not his and he wasnt a DNA test.. that was well over a month ago ad he has yet to do it. I have not heard from him nor has he seen my child since may. But today I find out he has stolen pictures I had professionally done from my FB and posted them on his. Talking about how big and cute his child is. A child that he has never hep raised, or even been around which has always been his own decision, and a child that a month ago he wenton record saying wasn't his because he was not getting his way. I don't understand why people are that way. Why would you pretend to be a part of a childs life when you never have been. It makes me so mad that he seems to use my child to seek attention from others. When I have been doing it all day every day alone. He has never changed a diaper, paid a penny, or even held my child.