ughh!!!!! I'm so tired of everything, I just want this divorce to be OVER and move on!!!
I filed for primary custody last week, and now my ex's aunt is trying to get involved and told me to "sit down and think about what you're doing". Seriously? I just told her I wasn't happy with our current agreement, it was too hard and not healthy for the boys on my ex's part mostly. AND, there is two sides to every story she knows my ex's stories, but does she understand everything that the boys and I have been through? I bet you he left THAT stuff out.
So yeah, I filed for primary custody. I'm sorry, but it's confusing and waking up at 3 and 5 year old up at 6 in the morning to go sit at their aunts house until maybe 5 in the afternoon, get picked up *maybe* go home for a few hours, go to sleep at 9, and repeat the process is not healthy. I have a job where I don't have to be at work until 8:30, so they get to sleep and wake up on their own, I picked my days, so I take them to school and pick them up. I get to actually spend time with them and not drop them off. I don't get called out to work and I sure as hell don't have to call my ex at 11 at night to sit with the boys until 3 AM because I got called out to work. I know he want's to spend time with them, he's a great father but why can't he just see it for what it is? I just needed to vent....I don't understand how it's that hard.