Here's a little history: When I was 5 months pregnant, my ex told me that he wanted nothing to do with "a baby that's probably not even his" and that he "pitys me" and to never contact him again. I honored his request. When I was in hour 32 of my 40 hours of labor, he shows up at the hospital to start a fight. Yelling at me that I don't know what he's been through in the last few months. Are you serious!?!
Anyway lets fast forward to one year later and I get a text that says "Hey. Y'all need anything?" Are you kidding me?!? You've never even met your little girl, haven't bought one pack of diapers, haven't paid one dime of daycare. You've done nothing and you send a weak ass text like that!?! Sorry that this was so long but I'm furious!!
Sometimes, you've just got to forgive and be the bigger person. I know its hard and I can't honestly say that I always stick to it, but if he is trying to help, let him help. Doesnt mean you have to talk to him about anything other than the child, doesnt mean that you have to let him back in your lives completely, just means that you get a free pack of diapers or some money for daycare.
Reply...(childs name) could use some (diapers, formula, whatever your kid can or will soon need). Leave it at that, no please, no thank you, now where the F**k have you been, just that. Either does it or he doesnt. Keep your expectations low.
Hugs! I guess you have to decide if you want her father to be in her life or not. Get pass your anger and accept him as what he is, her father. Good luck!
I agree. ((HUGS))
Quoting devynsmommy09:
Sometimes, you've just got to forgive and be the bigger person. I know its hard and I can't honestly say that I always stick to it, but if he is trying to help, let him help. Doesnt mean you have to talk to him about anything other than the child, doesnt mean that you have to let him back in your lives completely, just means that you get a free pack of diapers or some money for daycare.
Reply...(childs name) could use some (diapers, formula, whatever your kid can or will soon need). Leave it at that, no please, no thank you, now where the F**k have you been, just that. Either does it or he doesnt. Keep your expectations low.
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Quoting devynsmommy09:Sometimes, you've just got to forgive and be the bigger person. I know its hard and I can't honestly say that I always stick to it, but if he is trying to help, let him help. Doesnt mean you have to talk to him about anything other than the child, doesnt mean that you have to let him back in your lives completely, just means that you get a free pack of diapers or some money for daycare.
Reply...(childs name) could use some (diapers, formula, whatever your kid can or will soon need). Leave it at that, no please, no thank you, now where the F**k have you been, just that. Either does it or he doesnt. Keep your expectations low.
Going back to my maiden name
- ladie17101
on Oct. 18, 2012 at 10:05 AM