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My name is Jessie. I have a wonderful soon to be 9 month old. I live with my parents again due to the fact me and my son's dad are no longer together. I got out of the relationship when I was about 5 months. It wasn't a healthy relationship and I didn't want my son to live with unhappy parents. The dad has only asked to see him once, and that was only after he was 7 months old. He rarely askes about him, but claims he cares and wants to be a part of his life. I've told him to prove it by showing that he really cares, but things are still the same. I got extremely lucky by finding a great guy that has stepped in and helps me with my son when I need it. My son really likes him. If anyone wants to add me feel free to. I could use some new found friends to talk to. Hope all have a great night.

by on Oct. 23, 2012 at 11:45 PM
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jes986
by on Oct. 24, 2012 at 9:34 AM

Someone will show up when you least expect it, well at least that is how it happened for me. I hope all goes well for you. If you need to talk about anything you can pm me at any time.

Quoting manda83012:

Hi Jessie :)
My name is Amanda and I'm also new to cm
I can relate to your situation a little bit.
I had to move back home when I had my son as well because me and his father broke up.
We had a disagreement about my sons last name.
He is almost two months old and my sons father hasn't seen him since he was born in the hospital.
He also claims he wants to be involved but is not making a effort either.
I haven't found anyone to step in and be a father but I'm not looking right now ; I hoe and believe God will send him to me when I'm ready.
Have a good day :)


steviechick
by on Oct. 24, 2012 at 9:38 AM

Hi, Jessie, and welcome to the group.  I'm glad you found a good guy for you and for your son.  Sorry that the BD isn't interested in his own child.  Perhaps he will change his mind as his son gets older.

jes986
by on Oct. 24, 2012 at 9:49 AM

I'm honestly kind of glad he isn't in the picture. I know it isn't really fair to my son, but I would rather him not end up confused and wondering if  'daddy wants me'. I never had to go through that and I don't want him to have to either. 

Quoting steviechick:

Hi, Jessie, and welcome to the group.  I'm glad you found a good guy for you and for your son.  Sorry that the BD isn't interested in his own child.  Perhaps he will change his mind as his son gets older.


sniklefritz
by on Oct. 27, 2012 at 7:53 PM

well...Hi!...I actually have one thats even older she'll be 26..I gave her to my cousin to adopt at birth..was not ready at 20..but i was squirrely and just was not interested..thank goodness, i feel way different of my other two....L.O.L.

Quoting jes986:


Quoting sniklefritz:

Hi welcome...I'm jamie...i'm a single mom with two girls ages 17 and 22 but i still have somegood advice here and there,,and a sholder thats great to lean on..ears to listen as well...:)


I'm the same age as your oldest daughter. And thank you in advance for any and all advice you give.


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