So, wtf? Money wise that's a nice thought, heart wise (because I love him) that's a nice idea, but can you do that? We've been married less than 1.5 yrs. been together only 2.5 so it's not like he's been locked down with me for years. How serious can your commitment be and how serious do you take vows if you think you can just walk out on it, because you want to? I can understand asking for time, but putting me down as an excuse and then booking?