My daughter's dad has been living with his gf and her daughters for a few months and so whe he has Lila she stays there with them. So the younger daughter's birthday is this weekend so Lila is going to go with him so she can go to the party. So I asked him what I shoud get the little girl for her birthday and he said "you don't have to get anything". I know that I don't really have the money for it and so it will be a small gift, but feel like it would be better than nothing at all, right?!
I can't decide if he doesn't want me to get the girl a gift from Lila beause he's worried it wont be super nice or she might not like it, or if he doesn't want his gf to know that i'm a nice person, or he just doesn't want me to spend money he knows i don't have.
If you were in this situation you'd get the girl a gift, right?? it just seems like the "duh" thing to do, imo.
I am going to go to Micheal's and see if they have any craft kids on sale so I can get her a couple of things instead of just one thing. she is turning 6, so hopefully she likes it.