I went to pick up my kids from my ex last night and they came out of the house crying so hard they were almost hyperventilating. Ex lives with his parents and they all got in a big fight last night. My 8yo DS accidentally hurt 6yo DD. Ex yelled at DS telling him that he could have paralyzed his sister and grabbed his toy out of his hand and threw it against the wall smashing it to pieces. Then his parents started yelling, at ex and at kids, and it just got worse. My kids said they were hiding in the downstairs bathroom crying. Ex's dad threatened to call police on ex in front of kids upsetting them even more.
It took me almost an hour to get them calmed down. I am so sick of all his shit. He doesn't care how his behavior is effecting his children. I now have to send them over there for 11 days over the holiday and my DD doesn't want to go at all. My son said he didn't know how he felt. They both just want there dad to be nice. Driving home my son was balling and said "I though you said all the fighting would stop when you and daddy got divorced" (he was abusive by the way). It broke my heart and it makes me sick that I have to send them over there. :*(
Sorry so long but thanks for reading.