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I came clean tonite update #1

Posted by on Nov. 14, 2012 at 7:44 PM
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I've been talking to this guy for a year no sleeping together just seeing eachother and talking.

I broke down and got somethings off my chest that I felt he needed to know before we move in with him.

I told him I'm seeing a counselor and that I had an abortion when braelyn was 7 mos old.

I'm in no way braging about it because I know there are women who can't have kids that want to adopt (my cousin is one of them which is why it affects me so much I was going to let her and her bf adopt braelyn).

I feel better getting it off my chest to him and i'm glad I have a guy that is willing to be there for me.

He thanked me for being open and honest and asked if i'd be ok, I told him yes.

I know now i'm going to be ok

Update #1

He now knows cancer runs on my moms side of my family after reading a post by somone in the mc group I felt he needed to know just incase anything happend to me and I got sick........
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Robsessed98
by on Nov. 14, 2012 at 9:54 PM
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Its a good sign that you are able to confide in him about such personal things and have him accept what youve done and be willing to support and stay with you.
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MommyAJ2921
by on Nov. 14, 2012 at 9:59 PM

ABSOLUTELY!!!

Quoting Robsessed98:

Its a good sign that you are able to confide in him about such personal things and have him accept what youve done and be willing to support and stay with you.


slovette
by on Nov. 14, 2012 at 10:03 PM

I'm glad he's supportive and that you got that off your chest.

sid1083
by Silver Member on Nov. 15, 2012 at 1:45 AM
They have the potential to be deal breakers. Glad to hear he was receptive & supportive to you.
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mommy_2_be_2010
by Bronze Member on Nov. 15, 2012 at 3:04 AM
I know I was getting scared because he didn't text back but while I was typing this he texted and let me know he was supportive of me, makes me feel awhole lot better knowing he's not running from me.

I'm lucky he's still around.
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otoole
by Bronze Member on Nov. 15, 2012 at 6:29 AM

thats great, that would only eat up inside you the whole time.

mommy_2_be_2010
by Bronze Member on Nov. 15, 2012 at 6:53 AM
It did whats worse is my daughters dad always throws it in my face(2nd child should've been his too) whenever he gets mad at me for little things.


Quoting otoole:

thats great, that would only eat up inside you the whole time.


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erinmomofone
by on Nov. 15, 2012 at 6:58 AM
Thanks great you told him. I am glad he is supportive. I am so proud of you.
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mommy_2_be_2010
by Bronze Member on Nov. 15, 2012 at 8:11 AM
Thanks erin........knowing he's going to stay makes me feel at ease


Quoting erinmomofone:

Thanks great you told him. I am glad he is supportive. I am so proud of you.

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erinmomofone
by on Nov. 15, 2012 at 8:13 AM
I bet! Hope it continues.


Quoting mommy_2_be_2010:

Thanks erin........knowing he's going to stay makes me feel at ease




Quoting erinmomofone:

Thanks great you told him. I am glad he is supportive. I am so proud of you.


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